Our users tell us they love the privacy Tapestry provides.
If you’re using Facebook as well as Tapestry, you’ve probably seen the mainstream media stories about privacy on social media, which only increases the apprehension for new people joining in the fun.
However, most of these stories talk about the default privacy and security settings applied by Facebook, and don’t explain how you can make your experience safer.
So here are our recommendations for people concerned about their privacy online.
Facebook basics
Never accept friend requests from anyone you don’t know
This seems simple and obvious but worth repeating.
Sharing posts and photos with your Facebook friends, can also unwittingly provide access to your posts and photos to any of their friends.
We’ll talk more about how you can prevent this, but the best way to protect yourself is to only accept people into your friends list that you know and trust.
Always log out of your account
If you don’t manually log out of Facebook, anyone using the computer after you can access your account.
Remember: Closing your browser will not log you out.
This is essential when using a computer that is not yours, but also highly recommended for your personal computer.
Use a secure password
You need a secure password for any account you have on the internet. Not just Facebook.
There is a lot of information available on the internet on what makes a secure password, but in short it should be at least 6 characters, should contain letters and numbers and should not be something that is easily memorizable.
Don’t use the names of children, pets, places you have lived or your favorite sports team. You should also change your password regularly and it’s best not to use the same password for more than one account.
Facebook settings

At any point, you can adjust your specific Facebook privacy settings by clicking the gear button in the top right of your Facebook page and selecting Privacy Settings.

Once you see the Privacy Settings and Tools page, we’ll take you through the three most important items in the side menu: Security, Privacy, Timeline and Tagging.
These are the settings we recommend that anyone who is concerned with Facebook privacy:
Security
Secure Browsing – Enabled
This means that any time you use Facebook all data sent over the internet will be encrypted and secure from anyone that might be trying to spy on your data.
Login approvals – Enabled (Optional)
Enabling this will mean that anytime you log into Facebook using a browser you have not used before you will need to provide a secure code that will be sent by SMS to your phone.
This might sound a little over-the-top, and people inexperienced with technology may find this difficult to do. However, if you only ever access Facebook from your computer this is a great way to ensure nobody else can use your account even if they manage to get your password.
Privacy
Who can see my stuff – Friends
This setting controls who can view posts and photos you share on Facebook. If you really want very fine control, you can set this independently for each post, but most people will share with the default setting.
Who can look me up – Friends
This is the list of people who can look you up using the email address and phone number you provided when you signed up for Facebook.
Set this to friends and only those people you have already accepted as a Facebook friend can find you. This will prevent any pesky emails from people you don’t know.
Tagging and timeline
Your timeline is a historical record of your Facebook activity. It’s worth noting that other people can post to your timeline directly. You can change what appears in your timeline and who can post to it.
One of the great features of Facebook is the ability of people posting photos to identify the people in the photo by tagging them.
Restricting who can tag you in a photo, and asking for your permission to be tagged is a great way to control who sees photos of you: even if the photos were shared by someone else.
Here are our recommendations for the Tagging and Timeline privacy settings.

Facebook Timeline and Tagging settings
Notifications
Tags – Anyone
Finally, it’s best to be alerted whenever you are tagged in a photo.
Facebook changes their privacy options from time-to-time, so it’s worth checking your settings every so often.
How do you feel about your privacy online? Got a concern or a question?
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